What does matter regarding your decision to marry and the timing? Here’s a good checklist to reflect on:
- Do you love each other?
- Do you respect each other?
- Do you have fun together?
- Does he treat you well?
- Do you have similar values?
- Do want the same things out of life?
- Are you compatible?
So what does this mean for all of us single ladies who have to watch our friends get married and ride off into happily? It means there’s no need to rush into marriage. Forever is a long time, so this is not a decision that you want to take or make lightly. Focus on your relationship with God. Establish yourself as a woman with a career, a life and a voice of her own before looking for “the one”. Lastly, always remember that a man can only complement you. He cannot complete you. If you’re not whole or if you’re unhappy with where you are in life, no man on earth will change that for you.
So take your time pretty girl. Wait for the one…not just anyone. There are billions of people in the world, but only ONE is meant for you. It’s going to take some time for your two paths to cross. But when they do….oh when they do, it will be magical and fantastical, just like you’ve always dreamed.